Relationships

JJ and Dood, A Love Story

January 17, 2017
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My son is obsessed with my dad, and it’s basically my favorite thing that has ever happened.

For those who don’t know, my dad is what most people call.. Scary. He’s got a super dry sense of humor that some (lame) people don’t get. I think he’s hilarious and the best dad in the universe, but where I see a teddy bear most people see a grizzly. So to see him turn into a ball of mushy love with my son is nothing short of heart melting.

JJ and Dood (what JJ calls my dad) have had extra time together lately, as my folks came into town to help with Levi’s arrival. The two of them now speak their own language and have more inside jokes than the cast of SNL.

Part of why I love their relationship so much is because my dad and I have a really special relationship too. We’ve always been close and he’s always been my hero. Growing up (and even now) he always had the answers; whether it was to my million questions about how the world worked (why is the sky blue, how come birds can fly, etc), guidance for starting Fuck Cancer, or life advice, dad always seems to know just what to say.

When my mom got cancer, my bond with my dad was changed forever. You see, we speak our own language too- but rather than inside jokes and made up words, the language dad and I share often needs no words. We cared for mom together though all of her surgeries. We sat for hours in hard hospital chairs, we emptied her drains and washed her tenderly. We had our hearts broken together and learned to take care of each other while we took care of mom.

So to see my sons give my father such joy fills my heart more than I can say. I’m glad dad gets to create his own language and world with my boys that is built on joy and happiness. I’m also glad that I get to take hilarious pictures and videos of them that I can bribe my dad with for years!

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2 Comments

  • Reply Liz January 17, 2017 at 10:07 am

    Beautiful and heartwarming post! My dad is so close with my eldest daughter and it warms my heart more than anything! So special

  • Reply Aasia January 17, 2017 at 2:40 pm

    I will be honest… I have meet you in person before when you lived in Vancouver,BC . You and your brother came into the cafe were I was working at that time and I have to say you two are the most gracious, charismatic and well mannered people I had encountered in a world full of unapproachable or manner-less humans in the city. I had seen you a handful of times after that and you were always illuminating in the way you talk with others and the seamless way in which you invite others into your world. Your parents have done an amazing job and even without their presence, their parenting is represented in the way in which you carry yourself as an adult or child.
    Great job Mr&Mrs. Cohen!!!!

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